The Abroad Edit| Life Abroad, Migration& Expat Stories

When I left Lagos for Slovenia, I wasn’t just changing countries—I was changing the rhythm of my entire life. Lagos raised me with noise, colour, community, and chaos. Slovenia welcomed me with silence, mountains, and a pace so slow it felt like time had stretched itself out just for me. I didn’t know it then, but this move would become the beginning of my soft life. 🇸🇮✨A New World: From Lagos Energy to Ljubljana Calm Slovenia shocked me at first. Not because it was strange, but because it was quiet . No honking. No street vendors calling out. No neighbours blasting Afrobeats on a Saturday morning. Instead, I found: postcard‑perfect mountains clean, walkable streets fresh food from local markets and silence—real silence At first, I missed the noise. But slowly, I realised peace is also a kind of music. Slovenia taught me that slow doesn’t mean boring. Slow can mean beautiful 🧕🏾Standing Out: Being a Black Woman in a Small European Country Let’s be honest—I stand out here. Sometimes ...

 Introduction This €50 in my hand might not seem like much — but its meaning changes depending on the system around it. Recently, I received an official email from the tax office confirming I am entitled to approximately €1,500 in tax refunds for 2025. The process is structured, transparent, and the payment is scheduled directly into my account in May 2026. That moment made me reflect deeply — not just on money, but on systems, accountability, and what citizens receive in return for what they contribute . Understanding the Value of €50 in a Functional System In many European systems, €50 may cover a few days of essentials like food, transportation, or basic living costs depending on lifestyle and location. But beyond the monetary value, what stands out is the structure behind it: Clear tax records Predictable refund systems Social safety nets Institutional accountability Support mechanisms in times of unemployment or hardship These systems don’t eliminate struggle — but they pr...

Introvert–Extrovert Blend I’m a mix of quiet and wild — one moment craving solitude, the next ready for spontaneous adventures. It’s a full‑time party in my head, and both sides always show up. Fashion Rebel I rarely buy clothes. My wardrobe is so outdated I could pass for a stylish time traveler. But hey, vintage never dies, and I’m saving money while keeping thrift stores alive   Heel Addict Shoes — especially heels — are my weakness. They turn me into a glamorous, slightly wobbly supermodel. If you see someone wobbling with confidence, that’s me living my best elevated life. Luxury Essentials Lover Heels, bags, and perfumes are my holy trinity. If you’re looking for my most expensive items, that’s exactly where you’ll find them. I don’t care much for makeup, and if “slaying for the gram” were a full‑time job, I’d be fired on day one — the stress alone would finish me. But when it comes to parties, I’m the life of it. No makeup needed, just vibes. Lessons in Chaos Life throws ch...

Moving to Slovenia was never part of my original life plan—but life has a way of surprising you. In October, I packed my bags and relocated to Slovenia to join my partner, who is Slovenian. It was a huge step into the unknown: a new country, a new culture, and a completely different system to navigate. But I kept asking myself one question: What happens if I don’t take this chance? Why I Decided to Move to Slovenia The decision wasn’t easy. Leaving behind familiarity, comfort, and routine is never simple. But sometimes, growth requires stepping outside of everything you’ve ever known. For me, it was about love, curiosity, and the desire to experience life from a completely new perspective. 👉 Have you ever made a big life decision that completely changed your path? My First Impressions of Slovenia Slovenia is peaceful, beautiful, and incredibly calm. The landscapes are stunning, and there’s a quiet rhythm to life here that feels very different from what I was used to. But adjusting h...

When I first packed my bags and left Nigeria, Slovenia wasn’t exactly the country anyone expected me to choose. People always ask, “Why Slovenia?” But that’s the beauty of my journey — sometimes life takes you to unexpected places that end up shaping you in ways you never imagined. Living in Slovenia as a Nigerian girl has been a mix of culture shocks, quiet discoveries, challenges, and surprisingly soft life moments. This is my honest story.     First Impressions of Slovenia    The first thing that hit me when I arrived was the calm. Slovenia is quiet — almost too quiet when you’re coming from the lively, energetic streets of Lagos. The air felt fresh. The streets were clean. The people were polite but reserved. I still remember my first bus ride: No one was talking. No loud music. Just people scrolling their phones or staring out the window at the Alps. That’s when it hit me — I was really far from home. Exploring Ljubljana — the heart of Slovenia’s culture and so...

Your go-to guide for staying stylish, cool, and carefree all summer long There’s something magical about summer fashion. It’s the season where comfort meets elegance, where breezy fabrics dance with sunlight, and your outfit speaks before you even say a word. Whether you’re headed to the beach, brunch, or a solo stroll by the sea, the soft life girlie aesthetic is your summer vibe — and we’re here for it! “Breezy fits, golden hour glow, and soft life energy only ✨💛 A moment styled, worn, and captured by yours truly — because effortless still deserves a little credit.” 👗 Outfit: Styled by Bene 📸 Captured by Bene 🌾 The Look That Speaks Summer Pictured above is your ultimate sun-kissed starter pack: • A crisp white eyelet dress — breathable, feminine, and timeless. • A wide-brimmed straw hat with a floral scarf — for that touch of old-money glam. • Gold crossover sandals — minimalist yet luxe, perfect for gliding into golden hour. • A textured woven tote bag — soft, fu...

  You don’t need to be rich to live a soft life. Here are easy ways to bring peace, beauty, and joy to your daily routine without spending much. 🕊️ Soft Life on a Budget: Romanticize Your Daily Routine in 2025 The “soft life” isn’t about luxury—it’s about intention. It means choosing peace over pressure, and beauty over burnout. Good news: You don’t need a yacht or private chef to live it. Simple Ways to Live Soft Without Going Broke: 🌸 1. Wake Up to Music & Scent Play calm jazz or Afrobeat's in the morning. Light a candle or burn incense. ☕ 2. Make Your Morning Drink a Ritual Whether it’s tea or coffee, serve it in your favourite mug. Sip slowly. Sit by a window. 📖 3. Dress for Joy (Even at Home) Wear your favourite dress or robe—just because it makes you feel good. 🧺 4. Treat Chores Like Self-Care Put on a playlist while doing laundry. Open the windows. Romanticize the moment. 💌 5. Say “No” More Often Soft life means setting boundaries. Protect your time a...